So imagine…
You're about go out on stage to perform in front of a huge crowd.
Your heart's pounding.
You feel tremors in your hands
and legs.
Your palms are sweaty.
Your mouth is dry.
You've got Stage Fright!
This is pretty common.
Many people experience
performance anxiety long before the spot light is on.
And that's cool.
But sometimes (more often than
you would believe), it gets weird.
Check this out:
I've got a friend who's very
self-centered.
She's an attention monger.
Everything always has to be about
her.
She craves the spotlight.
But as soon as she gets what she
wants she gets all weird and uncomfortable.
It's like she wants everyone to
look at her, but she can't deal with the attention.
Sounds like perverted psycho
masochistic cycle of doom.
At first I thought this was weird.
Then it made me laugh.
But then I noticed I did the
exact same thing about money and success.
I told people (and myself)
I wanted to get rich and be
successful, but I reverted
to my comfort zone when
such opportunity presented itself.
I really wanted money and
accolades.
But I was scared of the burden of
success.
It sounds irrational... stupid
even.
And it is.
And I got rid of this bad
conditioning.
But I still see it every day on
the internet.
And what's worse...
These people aren't even aware
they're trapped in this mental self-sabotage.
How did I get myself unstuck?
Simple.
I set smaller goals and slowly
built up my confidence.
I wanted to make $10K per
month online and quit my day job at the print shop.
But I figured $10,000 wasn't
realistic.
I just didn't believe I could
achieve it.
I didn't feel comfortable with it.
So I set a comfortable goal of an
extra $500.00 per month online & made it.
Then I went for $1,000.00 per
month.
Next $2,000.00 and so on.
Eventually, these wins added up
and I felt comfortable about going full out.
To your success,
Steve James
steve@stevej4nwc.com
(701) 901-1408
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